Hope that helps.
Play her in the key of G. The [OM]“G-spot” is very real. You'll feel a tiny bump on the upper part of the inner vagina, not too far in. Curve your finger or tongue upward to make contact with it. If you get no response…check her pulse. Stimulate the clitoris with you finger while doing this. Or, use your thumb to rub the clitoris and your (curved) middle finger hit the G-spot. Clip your nails first.
The brain is the leading sex organ, start there. When a woman is calm and at ease and feels sexy and confident, and most importantly, comfortable, with her partner, she's ready to begin.
Hillary thinks we must censor or "we lose total control". Why does she demand total control?
And this is the part men hate. When you've caused her to arrive at her destination in Oh-oh-ohhhh my God! Land. You're not off the clock. She will probably expect to be held and may want to, God forbid…talk.
With insecure men, sex is about dominance, dominating their partner. but a secure man puts her above himself, and makes it about her. To a secure man a woman's body is a sacred place of worship during sex. Not something to conquer, desecrate and vandalize. That doesn't mean however that it can't get dirty, rough and nasty, provided that's what both parties want, not by any means.
Time, take your time, touch her everywhere, make her tingle all over. She should be moaning and rolling her eyes back before any sex act is even perfomed. Some women can orgasm just from foreplay, if it's done right.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Forget what you see in porn, (most) Porn is about as realistic as superhero movies. Those people are fluffed and drugged up before the camera rolls. Just like racehorses, they're warmed up and drugged before a race. Porn is entertainment not education. And it was surprising to me to learn how many women admit to watching it. But unlike men, it's not there lifes-work. They generally don't watch 3,000 hours of Porn a year.
Her neck and her ears, these body parts are often ignored. Kissing a woman's neck is akin to shifting her to a higher gear. You'll notice the head tilting back with a simultaneous moan or deep exhale. Yet, not all women want the same thing.
The mouth, no it's not what you think, dirty minds. The best way to use one's mouth during sex, is communication. Talk to her, listen to her, and respond accordingly. A woman can communicate on three levels; eyes, mouth and body. Read her like a book, because she's telling a very sexy story, that could have a very happy ending for both of you.
This overlooked cause of PTSD is only going to get worse - vox.com
Don’t kill the clitoris, go easy on it until she says otherwise. And there's an entire vagina there, don't linger to long in one spot. If you're doing it right, you'll know. I've had hair pulled out of my head and fingernails dug into the back of my head during her orgasm, subtle hints you're doing it right.
7) A proper female orgasm is akin to demonic possession. She should convulse and shake with her eyes rolled back and her feet bent and contorted. Making sounds you've never before heard. If you're thinking; seriously, is she okay? You may be doing something very very right.
